

Yes, she has been praised and criticised as “outspoken”, but her style never risks being “aggressive” or “combative”, or any of the other words thrown at women who are deemed insufficiently graceful when they disagree with men. Besides becoming an actor, she became a feminist who worked for UN Women as an advocate for political participation and leadership. Markle majored in international relations and theatre at Northwestern University, Illinois. Relations with them, at least since the courtship and engagement, have been strained. There are two half-siblings from his previous marriage, both quite a bit older.

Meghan’s parents divorced when she was six, and she lived with her mother after that, although she saw her father regularly. This must have happened in the 80s and early 90s when she was a young girl it still happens in the US to every black woman I know who has a mixed-race child.

Prosperous and largely white: Meghan’s mother was regularly mistaken for her nanny there. The family settled in Woodland Hills, a prosperous Los Angeles neighbourhood. This union of white Hollywood and black social-spiritual activism made her the offspring of a modern and ever more varied biracial bourgeoisie. Rachel Meghan Markle, for those who have chosen or somehow managed to miss the ceaseless chronicling of her life thus far, is the only daughter of Thomas Markle (white), an Emmy award-winning cinematographer and lighting designer, and Doria Ragland (black), a social worker and yoga instructor who focuses on community mental health. Photograph: Chris Jackson/AFP/Getty Images Meghan Markle and the Duchess of Cambridge at the Royal Foundation Forum. Women don’t need to find a voice, they have a voice, and they need to feel empowered to use it, and people need to be encouraged to listen.” So did the words “I fundamentally disagree”, as in: “What’s interesting is … when speaking about girls’ and women’s empowerment you’ll often hear people say: ‘Well, you’re helping women find their voices,’ and I fundamentally disagree with that. The words “MeToo” and “Time’sUp” flowed from her lips. And when both women were asked in the video about the causes they planned to take up, Meghan spoke out. In a subsequent photo Kate crossed her legs at the knee. In fact, things turned out better than I’d feared. But it was the legs that haunted me – in part because I’d been taught that same bit of etiquette when I was a young black midwestern girl in the 1950s and early 60s, a child of the manners- and achievement-conscious black bourgeoisie, which in those days we called the Negro elite. Both Kate and Meghan had folded their hands in their laps, the arms forming a gentle circle, the hands quietly clasped, as if ready to shelter a child or calm a kingdom’s cares. It was that dulce et decorum pose passed down to generations of girls and young women expected to demonstrate their good breeding on social occasions – expected to show they are “ladies”. It wasn’t their dresses I minded, it was how they sat – legs crossed neatly at the ankle, knees pressed firmly together.

